Kissing A Fool

Remembering someone and his kisses tonight so suddenly

What is a KISS ???

A kiss is the touching of one person's lips to another place, which is used as an expression of affection or to show respect, and as a greeting or a farewell. Kissing can be used to express romantic affection or sexual desire. The word comes from Old English cyssan "to kiss", in turn from coss "a kiss". It is generally considered one of the strongest ways to show affection.

Which one is better?

To kiss the one you love

Or to be kissed by the one who loves you?

What is exactly the greatest thing about kissing? Ever heard of kissing a fool? Ever kissed by a fool or kissed a fool? Why is it have to be called fool? What is so fool about kissing?

They say thay kissing allows prospective mates to smell and taste each other's pheromones for biological compatibility. Woman are subconsciously more attracted to men whose major histocompability complex portion of their genome is different from their own, leading to offspring with resistance to a greater number of diseases due to heterosis, and thus having a better chance of survival. This explains why couples are more likely to bond if they have the right "chemistry.

Uh huh?

Once in my life I used to be so stupid and maybe deserved to be called fools, when someone for the first time touched my lips with his, and I just shut mine tightly and guess don’t reach like what he was expect me to be.

Well, that’s my very first kiss. Which leads to millions other kisses in my life. What so funny is, my very first stupid kisser never even give an effort to kiss me anymore after that. 6 damn months after that without any kiss? Wow! Get real!

Remember when I was so eager to satisfy him with my so godamn sexy lips in his, but then he never let me to! Darkest time haha

The second kisser goes better. But dunno, have you kissed without feeling anything? Not even any butterfly effects clinging in your stomach? Not even the joy and the intimacy? You just kiss. You just kiss to satisfy your kiss-mate? That’s what happened with my second kisser. Damn meaningless and regretful. Ups. Did I say regret? Sorry. Correction. No regret. Just meaningless. Never regret a kiss!

Go to the third kisser. My third kisser so far my best kisser. He is an expert! Every kiss leads to longing for another great kisses. I love to kissed him. I don’t really feel the butterfly *or maybe there’s no such thing as butterfly lives in mine* but I feel the satisfaction after every kiss we had. Hmm… I felt loved. I used to refuse believing in the idea that romance needs intimacy started from a very simple thing like holding hand, caressing and kissing, and what I would never do before I get married, making love *or having sex? What term you choose?* but after I’m with my third kisser, I know it bitter but true. Yeap. What can I say then? But I guess my lip-mate not my soulmate. Didn’t end up well with my third kisser. To be a great kisser doesn’t help you stop from being a jerk once you really are!

Something funny is I missed the kissing thing for about two month and that’s not so nice! See, I even believe the idea that kissing can reduce your stress! Don’t believe it? How about try it? And as a Capricornean, with rightly proud I’m telling, that our kiss is a stress killer! Tempted? Haha

Now I got him. My fourth kisser who I really desire to be my last kisser. Please dear. To be honest I don’t feel the butterfly or the passionate things, but the love we share flooding over us, and I wouldn’t replace it for anything else. I love to kiss when it comes to a perfect moment, like one we had just before saying another goodbye in the middle of the night in front of me house silently softly and glimpsely. The kiss captured me!

So you see, for me kissing is something precious. Not to be done with someone who doesn’t deserve to. Gotta be done in a perfect moment. And it not just about lust but it contains love. Am I being corny? Well, I always do

ONCE

ONCE really is such a sweet musical movie I ever watch! The simple idea makes it crunchy yet you still can catch the means it is intended to brought. Well, in my opinion it is has some means.

Bit freak when you take a listen to the dialogue with a bunch of “fuck” and “fucker” and “sucker” and lotza more to be laugh to hear. It doesn’t sound rude anyhow. Guess that’s just how people communicate haha

I cant catch the opening of the movie where the guy just singing and got pickpocketed by some geeks who turns out to be his friend and not even shown up in other scene of the movie. I don’t get the scene. Was it meant to tell us something? Dunno.

The story begin in the night. Where the guy just sing alone in the silent of the night without even realizing that someone watching over him. Yes, the girl it is. The annoying one with lots of annoying question I don’t think I would even ask to someone I barely known *like where’s the girl the guy wrote the song for* and leads to “hoover-appointments” for the next day.

Imagine how a simple words can change your life. Happens here.

There’s no such sweet romance or something in this movie, so please don’t expect one. It just flows as is should be between a guy and a girl that accidentally united by the universe will. And until the end, you don’t even get the chance to know the name of the guy or the girl! That’s another great thing about this movie. Did it ever happen in your life? Meeting someone who might be the love of your life just to find out that there’s no such thing cause you’ve got another story to be told, but the glimpse will always be the time of your life?

Just once.

And of course, as a musical drama, the soundtrack is extremely great! You gotta love it even when you haven’t see the movie, and you’ll love it even even even more after you see it! My favorite scene was when the guy and the girl for the first time played a song together and realizing something, that they got it. The chemistry! And Falling Slowly bring out the romantic ambiance surprisingly! If you watch it with your lover, guess this is the right moment to kiss :p as I did! Hehehe

Another great song comes from this ONCE is when the girl made up a lyrics for a song the guy’s created and it turns out to be so great romantic! If You Want Me will made you feel like you want to be satisfied! And geez I love the fashion goes with Marketa Irglova! Cool! For sure! You’ll never gonna find someone as sweet as her with stuffs she got here in Indonesia. And yes, Glen Hansard is not so gorgeous at all but it doesn’t make this movie less attracting and satisfying.

Again, just to remind you that there are something that just come into your life, become the time of your life, one of it best part, but not something so worth to be chased for, and will remain a treasure in you forever. Don’t ruin it.